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Can Attitude Change Your Reality


Michael Beck - Expert Author

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I've observed that negative people often adopt a defeatist mindset, taking on the role of a victim, while positive people often adopt a solution-oriented mindset and set about creating their own opportunities. Consequently, I've come to understand that having a positive attitude indeed makes a significant difference not only in a person's level of success, but also in their enjoyment of their life. It even determines whether they succeed at all.


People who are negative view themselves as "realistic". (Wait a minute... isn't "reality" a matter of perspective?) So the challenge is to determine whether you're a "negative" person.

Here are some guidelines:

  • If you feel that your course in life and business is determined by others, then you need to adjust your attitude so you can shift your reality.
  • If you feel that the cards are often stacked against you, then you need to adjust your attitude so you can change your reality.
  • If you feel that your company, manager, agents, and/or clients don't support you, then you need to adjust your attitude so you can change your reality.

We each have the ability and power to literally change our reality.

How does one turn a negative attitude into a positive one? The same way someone with a positive attitude maintains it. You need to eliminate the negative inputs, influences, and factors in your life and introduce positive ones. We're bombarded with messages throughout the day and night. Some of them are good and some of them are just plain bad for you. We get "messages" from family, friends, coworkers, radio, newspaper, TV, music, the internet, billboards, books, magazines, and any number of other sources. If YOU don't decide what goes into your head, then someone else will. You need to take control of what you feed your mind.

Here are some tips on how to adjust and maintain your attitude:

Eliminate the Negatives

Stop reading the newspaper

Stop watching TV news

Stop seeking the negative on the internet

Stop hanging around negative people

Introduce Positives

Start hanging around positive people

Start reading motivational or inspirational books - biographies, personal growth, success

principles, etc.

Start listening to CD's - motivational, personal growth, uplifting music, etc.

Does attitude really count? Can attitude really change your reality? I guess it all depends on your perspective...

2008 Exceptional Leadership, Inc.

About the Author

Written by Michael Beck, an Executive Coach and Strategist specializing in employee engagement, executive development, and leadership effectiveness. Connect on LinkedIn: and visit to learn more.

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Article Published/Sorted/Amended on Scopulus 2008-12-29 01:37:24 in Personal Articles

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